So do you prefer to lead or follow?
This really depends on whom I am riding with. I don't ride with all that many as most guys I am friends with do not own bikes. But the few that do I am usually in the lead. Bottom line my navigation skills are decent... I ride more aggressively as well... although that has diminished somewhat as the years pile on for obvious reasons mainly SPEEDING TICKETS (

) but, I generally have a more upbeat metabolism so I like a brisk, yet rationally sane pace. This usually puts me in the lead.
btw..that Shadow 1100 must have been the slow, single pinned Ace model..or just not running right. Probably after market pipes without the proper jetting. My Sabre 1100, although obviously not as quick or powerful, could 'keep up' with the Valk given enough time. The Bike running corn free fuel and jetted properly produced around 70 ponies, but weighed under 600lbs wet... I use to cruise my Sabre at 90-100mph, and it had plenty of throttle left...