This is from Seneca's 'Letters From a Stoic'

I like it as it reflects some of what I think about in the sense of worldly possessions and life in general. I train the body but not excessively, only for the strength I need for life and living. This also affects the mind in the same way, if we don't train our brains they'll atrophy just the same as our bodies.
I'm not much for excess comfort or excess perks in where I dwell.. I care not what my car looks like so long as it's not junky looking. I care not about fancy clothes.. or fancy dinnerware.. or fancy cuisine, I eat for performance.. Outward appearances mean little to me and are rooted in vanity, we know vanity is just grabbing at the mist and means nothing. Not to say I'm a slob, far from it.. living as a contrarian without the outward appearance of doing so is my goal.
Where I live is the epitome of plastic thought, the people I see honoring themselves in foolish vanity and self delusion.. creating a farcebook fantasy lifestyle for themselves as they live in a cesspool of deluded internal misery.
A friend of mine has a 'trophy wife' who's obsessed with herself and herself. He knows it but has been with her for so long it's just now the way it is. I ask him how miserable he thinks she'll be when her looks are gone as she's already what I consider a miserable, insecure and selfish person. He doesn't want to get rid of her as he loves her, but honestly I feel for him. Living with someone like that I consider a form of self imposed enslavement.
Not sure what I'm trying to say other than I recognize what I don't want and am thankful and have much gratitude for the woman I have.
Keeping life simple and living now.. dwelling on past mistakes is my hallmark and I'm working to be more mindful of that. I don't spend a lot of time worrying about the future, I know I'll do what it takes to survive and thrive. This year I'm paring everything down to bare basics, I know I have to maintain some excess to please my girl, which is fine, but honestly if I had things my way I could live in a very sparse and simple dwelling.
Just some thoughts on the mental game