But for now I’m going to blame on something else. I’ve done a fair amount of sheetrock. But it was always the plain 1/2” stuff. For the bathroom remodel I decided on some 5/8” water resistant stuff. Holy Moly ! This crap is heavy. I was taught to install them horizontally if possible. Lifting that second sheet up and screwing it in place was about my limit. I’m sure technology is conspiring to add weight to sheetrock. I couldn’t have gotten this flabby in 18 months.

Hopefully you're not using that sheet rock in your shower as well. Much better (and much lighter) options in terms of performance available for that.
Using concrete board for the tub surround. Going to be tiled.
Attaboy...hate to see folks using gypsum board in wet areas, even the so-called "water resistant " board still approved in some areas. Since you're getting so old and weak

, check out the foam-based tile backer boards such as Kerdi, Wedi, etc if you're not already familiar. Super light and easy to cut and handle , only needing the seams detailed with supplied tape and tile bond coat to be 100% waterproof.