My daughter asked me what I'm putting up this year...pointing out the fact I've done nothing since being forced out of my Fla. home after Rita's passing. I told her I had rather large plans for this year, got the ideas from some of the advertising in the Amish phone book. She didn't catch on at first but her husband did and was rolling on the floor...which she didn't find amusing. I left and headed out to run a couple errands, was walking through a store when my cell buzzed me. Me.."hello." My daughter.."you're an ass" then click. I later found out she had some choice words for her hubby as well. Years ago I found one of the best ways to treat my girls when they're "mad at dad" is to walk up behind them and encircle them with my arms, which also pins their arms to their side, then simply whisper "I love you" in their ear. At first my eldest would fuss at me, telling me to stop cuz "I'm not done being mad at you." Then laugh about it. I did the same thing Thanksgiving Day at my daughter's place...it still works!

I'm still not putting up anything, but at least she's ok with it now.
