I am in the process of changing my alternator. I bought an aftermarket USA made high amp output alt, and on my IS, had to remove the battery box to get to the plug for the cable... I am going to go through and clean the wires inside. at 96k and with a love of Florida's WMA's, Me and my wife have some DIRTY interiors.

I am wondering, based on the image here:
https://www.partzilla.com/catalog/honda/motorcycle/1999/gl1500cf-ac-valkyrie-interstate/wire-harnessWhich Relay is responsible for the headlights? I have had (since I bought bike at 49k) an intermittent problem with the headlights cutting off and not coming on until multiple power on/off cycles. I am hoping to change it out. If you could describe (from reference of the picture) the relay location and callout #, I would greatly appreciate it. Perhaps another way to identify it?
Any suggestions for cleaning the dirt/dust off of the harness, and or plugs?