So I don’t HAVE to lube the o rings? I’d really hate to have to take everything apart again. I had no issue installing them in the intake tubes and surfaces were cleaned.
No, if you already got it together, you don't have to take it apart again. And as far as the danger of petroleum based grease being bad for the o-rings: It is not bad for Nitrile aka Buna-N or NBR o-rings. I used to design all kinds of valves and fittings with many o-rings. Nitrile rubber is compatible with nearly all petro-chemicals. EPDM rubber, the other main type we use is not.
If you're ever in doubt check the Parker-Hannifin O-Ring handbook, available on line.