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Scooby
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« on: March 30, 2010, 07:47:35 AM »

I will try to make this as short as I can.  Got a divorce in 1997, bought my ex brother in laws 1990 Goldwing and got back into riding.  Rode it to Sturgis the next year , felt like a old man, saw my first Valkyrie, fell in love with it.  Got home from Sturgis and 2 days later I owned a 1997 Tourer with 6500 miles on it and the Goldwing was gone.  Over the years I put on every piece of chrome that I could get my hands on including custom parts from other makers that I could find a fit for and make work on my Valkyrie, this bike is so very special to me.  Speed ahead 10 years to 2008, had a little incident on the interstate doing 70 mph, a piece of debris hit the oil sending unit (custom gauges) on my bike, knocked it off, I looked like a rolling smoke ball going down the road, oil pouring out from the sending unit right under my rear tire, someone was looking out for me that day, never touched a brake, pulled in the clutch, turned off the engine, and coasted up the exit ramp.  The adrenaline did not let my brain work at that time, but as time passed the adrenaline left and reality checked in...............it scared the hell out of me.  The rest of that year I did not ride at all.  The next year we bought a camper and a boat, and I found something that I really enjoyed, that year the bike had 8 miles put on it.  Now we are to yesterday, I changed the oil, put the new tags on it, and aired up the tires and took it for a little ride.  I get home and put it against the garage wall and cover it up again thinking that I will ride again soon.  Back to reality, I know that it will be another busy summer camping and fishing and the bike will not move, all of my friends that used to ride no longer ride.  I feel like I need to sell, but I have such a strong bond with this machine that it is really tearing at my heart.  I know that sounds strange and some of you will understand, and some of you will not.  I have asked for advice many times over the years, and Iam asking for it once again.

Thanks, Scooby
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« Reply #1 on: March 30, 2010, 07:59:26 AM »

   I know over the years I have parted company with some things that I wish I could get back. I am not sure what your finacial situation is but It is not costing you much to keep it in case you get the urge to take her for a spin. Just my 2 cents.

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« Reply #2 on: March 30, 2010, 08:09:38 AM »

Scooby,

 I really don't like to tell anyone to sell a bike but if your really not going to ride it, sell it to someone who will enjoy it.  Sounds like you enjoy the camping and boating so you have other things to do on the weekends.

Valkyries are great bikes. I sold my to a friend but he rarely rides due to his work schedule.  If I could afford it, I would buy it back.  I know I could put more miles on than he does.

Had a friend years ago, had a beautiful Harley Softail.  She rode less and less each year. The last
year she owned it, she rode 97 miles.  I told her it was a shame to let such a nice bike to just sit.
She agreed and ending up selling it.  She hasn't had a bike since.

Hope this helps.

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« Reply #3 on: March 30, 2010, 08:15:27 AM »

Scooby, all that I can do is tell you of my experience.

In 2002 or 2003 I was riding with my Bud and my three sons down to the Smokies. We were still in Indiana when i was following my Bud but not riding my own ride.  He took this sharp curve like he was on rails. Just as I was countersteering into the curve I saw oil and let up. I looked off road and promptly ran off road, crossed a railroad track NOT at the crossing, still leaned over.  My son said that the Valk flew about 12 inches into the air. I got back on the road but went over the yellow but no one was in the opposing lane.  I wasn't hurt and neither was the Valk but my riding attitude suffered ever since.  I sold the Valk last year due to my age and arthritis (too heavy for me). I still have a Nighthawk 750, lighter in weight. It's easier to handle but still hard at my age of 82.  I won't give up riding and still get enjoyment out of it.  It was hard to give up the Valk but even harder to give up riding.

My advice is to try to quit dwelling on the past, if you can, and ride the Valk, you pick the place, you pick the time, you pick the circumstances but ride!

My handle is Solo1 and for good reason.  I've always enjoyed riding by myself even though the folks that I rode with back in the '40's are no longer around .  I enjoy the company of VRCC riders.  I might not ride with them but enjoy the company of the sport of riding, even with the inherent dangers.  Ride And Live!

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« Reply #4 on: March 30, 2010, 08:21:08 AM »

If you don't want to ride it, and yet, can't sell it - do the only natural thing left:


GIVE IT TO ME!


I promise I will give it a good, loving home and a garage for it to reside in while I'm not out enjoying it.
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« Reply #5 on: March 30, 2010, 08:23:43 AM »

Scooby,

It's a decision no one can make but you.  Persoanlly, I hate to see a bike sit, the Valks are made to be ridden.

If you decide to sell, Drop me a line.  I'm looking for a good Interstate.

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« Reply #6 on: March 30, 2010, 08:34:32 AM »

Every time I sold something in a situation like this, I have kicked myself in the arse afterwards.......

BUT, you are the only one who can make that decision..........

I look at it kind of like when ya fall down, GET BACK UP as if nothing happened, and mount up again....

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« Reply #7 on: March 30, 2010, 08:35:08 AM »

If you don't need to sell it for financial reasons, or need the space in the garage, then why sell it?  

Riding motorcycles means different things to different people.  If you only get to take it out once in awhile for a few miles, so what?  Just because you don't ride it as much as you used to doesn't mean you can't enjoy the few miles you do get to ride!  

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« Reply #8 on: March 30, 2010, 08:42:15 AM »

...Hey Scooby


..Personally I think there are many different "kinds" riders...that ride for many different reasons....alot of people who explore the wind, could not survive without a sleek machine sitting in the garage...(Im one of them)...if they could, they would ride every day until they can no longer throw a leg over it....others enjoy riding, but look at it as just one of many different interest they enjoy in life....others still were sittting at a red light one beautiful sunny day, and you pulled up next to them with that awesome Valk of yours, chrome all gleaming....you looking so cool with your dark shades on and your wife smiling on the back...so they go out and buy a bike...alot of times its a Harley, because thats what they have been "conditioned" to believe what a...real bikers is....these bikes sit in a quiet dusty corner of the garage most of the time, until the guy starts to thiking it was probably a mistake ..an "impulse buy"....and what could he do with all that Xtra cash if he sold it....you see these bikes on EBay all the time...there usually at least 5 years old., sometimes 10 ....and have under 3K miles on the clock...and the origional tires....



....being in the wind is without a doubt....a dangerous sport....we just had someone post the other day about a terrible accident in Arizona where many bikers were either killed or badly hurt...we,ve seen many members here, involved in bad accidents, and spend many many months in the hospital while they endure the slow painful process of  healing broken bones and the experience of being skinned alive....alot of these folks never throw that leg again...they almost died...and they suddenly realize just how dangerous this way of life is...


...I myself was involved in a nice little "incident" way back in the early 80,s...an Iranian kid who was just learning to drive hung a left right infront of me...then paniced and stopped...I hit him almost head on...ejected me off my bike..over his car...where I landed in the street in a heap...I stood up dazed and realized immediately that my left collar bone was broken..badly...the entire accident happened in slow motion..and as I was skidding into the front end of that Pinto Stationwagon...I truly believed that that was the last thing I was ever going to see on this earth...after the accident I had a revelation...I thought God had sent me a message...and that message was...stay off motorcycles if you want to live....and I did for 5 years.....but life is funny...one summer I began to hear the distant whine of crotch rockets as they wound our their gears in the distance...my throttle hand began to *twich* ....and I started to get  a growing hunger inside real bad...to be back in the wind...right around that time my father passed away...and my mom gave me his pristine 89 Gold Wing....I never did really like that bike...but I was back in the wind...and thats all that mattered to me....I rode that bike 4 years until I traded it for my 01 Black State....the fear was gone....totally...and being 55 soon...I figure there are alot worse ways to go...then doing what I love...and live for....


...if you still have "that fear"...then keep doin what you,ve been doing...boating...Id love to have a boat....but keep that Valk for at least another year...you never know when that throttle hand of yours might start twitching again...then if ya still have your doubts...sell it...and go buy yourself a couple of awesome...Twin Merc,s for the boat..  Cool
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« Reply #9 on: March 30, 2010, 08:44:20 AM »

Scooby,

If you can afford to, keep her, and try to take a spin every few weeks.

I had a bad accident in '82 ('77 Wing), and promised my wife I would never ride again (not to mention, it scared the hell outta me, and I am very lucky to be alive).  I didn't touch a motorcycle for 15 years, but hearing the bikes in the distance, every spring, stirred something in me...  I talked my brother outta buying a Harly, and told him about the Valk (I still was not riding, just knew a good bike when I saw it).  He purchased a '97 Standard, and rode it like it was a HD...  I purchased it from him, in '99 with 2500 miles on it, and never regretted my decision.  I had two young sons then, was a baseball and football coach, worked 50 hours a week, and kept up with a house...  I still found time to ride, and my baby now has 70K on her.

My sons are now 17 & 21, the wife is no longer in the equation, and I still love to ride my Fat Girl...

Only you can make the decision.  If it's a money thing, then it's fairly obvious...  If it's not, can't hurt to keep her, and go smash a few bugs every once in a while.  When/if you decide to sell, there are many folks here that would help ya find a buyer...

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« Reply #10 on: March 30, 2010, 09:33:21 AM »

Scooby,

My $0.02 - If you don't have to sell it, don't.  If you only ride it occasionally, it's still one of the coolest bikes you can have.  If you never ride it, it's still one of the coolest bikes you can have sitting in the garage waiting for you when you get the urge again.  Even if it's relegated to MC Art status, it's about as cool as it gets.  Plus, the market is kinda soft for sellers right now.   

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« Reply #11 on: March 30, 2010, 10:01:27 AM »

Ya know Scooby, if you still find that after a good deal of time passes and you still have that fear or using a better word, "hesitation" of getting back on the bike, if finances allow, why not consider triking the Valk.

I have a bad hip and just trying to hold up a two wheeler causes some sharp pain spasms. My Valk Trike is a pleasure to ride!

But in any event, I fully agree with most of the responses when they say that if you're able to hold on to her financially, definitely keep her! Here in Central VA the Valkyries are in high demand and seem to be entering a collector status! 
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« Reply #12 on: March 30, 2010, 10:51:00 AM »

Really can't add much to the thread except .... TAKE THE COVER OFF! Hard to ride a bike when you can't see it.


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« Reply #13 on: March 30, 2010, 10:55:54 AM »

First and foremost answer for yourself the question, will I ride again?

If the answer is a firm no then sell the bike.  If the answer is a maybe, a yes, or a weak no, then keep it at least a while longer.

If it still scares you to ride try to decide whether you think you'll overcome your fear.  If you're pretty sure you won't get past the fear then sell the bike.  Riding overly scared is dangerous both to you and those around you.

If you keep the bike but don't ride it much (and that's okay if that's what you decide to do) keep the tank full and get in eough miles to freshen the fuel every so often.

Enjoy life.  You only get one pass.  Life gives us enough reason to regret without our generating extras.
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« Reply #14 on: March 30, 2010, 11:06:43 AM »

In 1985, I sold a 750-four Honda chopper because my wife(now x-wife) wanted me to.  I went 5 years without a bike and I hated it every day.  Your case is different but, even if I never ride again, I don't plan on being without again.  I plan on keeping my Valk until I die if I don't do anything but look at it, polish it, and take care of it.
If you don't hafta, you should hang on to it.
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« Reply #15 on: March 30, 2010, 11:25:12 AM »

Scooby, I think Willow nailed the thought process you should have with this decision.

The only thing I would add is this; if you would like to ride on occasion, but the big Valk is part of the intimidation/trepidation, consider selling it and getting somthing smaller, perhaps a dual sport that you might be able to blend into your other enjoyable passtimes of camping and fishing.   Don't feel it is the Valk or nothing, a compromise to a smaller machine that is easy to take with you on trips for putting around on is better than no riding at all. 
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« Reply #16 on: March 30, 2010, 01:30:26 PM »

Here is some advice.

1. Don't get remarried, you will regret it.

2. Don't sell the Valkyrie, you will regret it.

3. You got the Shinola scared out of you and have not gotten back on that pony yet. You need to get back up on the pony. A man can't live scared without Shinola.

4. Don't hit 13.

5. Don't use stink bait before going out on a date, you will regret it.

So get back out there on that field and get back in the game, you will not regret it.

I have a lot more free advice, for the asking.

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« Reply #17 on: March 30, 2010, 02:32:51 PM »

Just don't forget to get a ride in once in awhile to keep the gaskets, etc. nice and soft.  I won't sell mine I want to trike it when I can't lift it off the side stand anymore.
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« Reply #18 on: March 30, 2010, 03:26:08 PM »

Alright, here’s my two cents…..

This is what I’d do. 

Put it on a stand, somewhere out of the way, change the fluids, drain the fuel, and store it correctly so that when you fall in love with riding again it’ll be all ready for you.

I’ve got two RC airplanes hanging in my shed.  Haven’t flown them in three years.  One I bought, the other I made out of a down spout, and a chunk of foam.  They both fly great, but I’m just not into them right now. 

One thing about the cycle is, it’s paid for!  It’s a classic, it’s irreplaceable, and it’s the best cycle out there!  And it’s yours!! 

Don’t sell it, store it.  You won’t be sorry in the long run.

Just remember to store it correctly!!
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« Reply #19 on: March 30, 2010, 03:44:39 PM »

Find new friends that ride......and ride with them.
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« Reply #20 on: March 30, 2010, 05:27:04 PM »

No judgements from me, or anyone else I don't think whatever you decide to do.  I agree with many though that it isn't eating very much...

Me... I refuse to not live... because I am too afraid to die.  I definitely don't want to die, or get hurt... or maimed or even get a little owie.  I got a lot to live for... but what % of riders die on their bikes?  Pretty slim I'd bet.

Anyone know the % of fatalities per 100,000 miles ridden?

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« Reply #21 on: March 30, 2010, 05:48:38 PM »

Solo 1 and willow make good points. Heck, load it up along with your camper, and dip down to I-90 and head west the 1st full week of Aug. You could enjoy both loves of your life at once.

Jabba, not sure if they statisticalize (?  ??? ) the MC fatallities by miles. Usually per 100,000 people. But like with anything, you do it long enough.....
When I go, I hope its doing something I love. Riding is one of them.  Wink
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« Reply #22 on: March 30, 2010, 06:14:36 PM »

My HArley Buddies and some of my Honda Buddies and myself at times enjoy trailering.

trailering involves a trailer of course.

Sometimes these trailered bikes are unloaded and ridden but not always.

This is a way you could enjoy your cycle and still not ride it.

Also a For Sale sign on it while you are driving around can get you some results as well,

Hopefully the end result of this will be you will get back onthe thing and ride it.

I'm just saying.

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« Reply #23 on: March 30, 2010, 06:25:06 PM »

Scooby,

There is a ton of great advice and plenty of opinions and options for you to read...

I was were you are about 17 years ago...went down, scrapped up a bit, walked away, but the nightmares were there and the what if's reared their ugly head from time to time...it took me about 3 years to through my leg back over my 84 GW I/S...also took the advanced riders course to work on my skills and build my confidence again. Been riding ever since and I will tell you that everyday I ride, I am sooo happy I never sold my GW I/S bc I would have never gotten back on...the bike sat, scrapped up and I never did anything to it, it took some time to fix her up...

Give it time, take a riders course when you think you are ready to ride again, run her every once in a while or store her properly, and visit the site and continue to be involvled here...great support network, wish I had the VRCC back in the  late 80's when I went down.

Advice is always free... cooldude

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« Reply #24 on: March 30, 2010, 07:55:14 PM »

Scooby, You put a lot of your time and soul in your Valk.  Wait a year then see if you still feel the same.  If so, pass her along to an eager rider.
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« Reply #25 on: March 30, 2010, 08:16:30 PM »

Really can't add much to the thread except .... TAKE THE COVER OFF! Hard to ride a bike when you can't see it.



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« Reply #26 on: March 31, 2010, 01:04:53 AM »

I like all the posts but really agree with Willow and Timberwolf with this added. Never really liked group riding so I guess I'm kind of a loner in that respect. Have always enjoyed being able to stop and explore without having to worry about someone else. So friends riding has never really been a issue. Fear is good reason not to ride longing is a good reason to ride. Things are on the scales right now balancing from one side to the other. There are many things in life we can enjoy each with its own special reward.  If camping gives you pleasure and you can put the rewards of riding behind you OK, but I would still hold on to the bike for awhile. It doesn't cost you anything and when you want to satisfy the itch you can. If you didn't have it then it makes the wanting all the worse. I would say that if the dust starts to get heavy on the bike its time to part with it.
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« Reply #27 on: April 28, 2010, 07:28:58 PM »

Scooby -

I'll ride with ya - I am in Sioux Falls and own a Valk. 

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« Reply #28 on: April 28, 2010, 08:03:30 PM »

I rode from my 15th birtday till 10 year later when we needed a dependable car for our 2 small sons. I missed riding and whenever someone offered, I took bikes out for rides. Then in 2001 I bought a Honda V65 Magna. Sweet bike when it was new, still a good bike. All the way up until the timing chain came loose and bent 4 valves and put holes in 2 pistons. Looked for a good deal for 3 years and then I found the Valk down the street at a good price. Might not be the last bike I own, but I am enjoying the time I get.
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« Reply #29 on: April 28, 2010, 08:25:26 PM »

There was a time( not long ago) that I was not sure if I was physically capable of riding again...then came a brief moment I was not sure I could handle it psychologically Undecided. My quick decision was " I'll NEVER know unless I try. I started out slow,probably blamed that more on the physical ailments because I wouldnt admit the psych was even a factor...BUT IT WAS !  I rode...and I rode ..then I RODE ! And if it had not been on the worlds sweetest machine ever produced,well,maybe I would have decided it was not worth it. But after dieing once you begin to wonder how would you want to go the next time. For me,IMHO,Those next few short rides was my answer. I do NOT want to leave this world because I was  hit by a bus while crossing the street or have heart failure from an overdose of beansprouts and granola!  I will go doing what I love. I'm not talkin about motorcycles,I'm talkin about LIVING. For me being scared is not living. You need to search for your own answer as to what LIVING is to you.

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« Reply #30 on: April 29, 2010, 03:13:56 AM »

Find new friends that ride......and ride with them.

What he said, get out to some local bike events, the Valk is bound to start some conversation. Try finding some new riding buds. I know how your feeling, been there. I also think you would feel worse if you sold it now with all the love and chrome you've invested in it. The Valkyrie isn't really selling for enough cash right now to help out any financial situation. Better off sitting on it and see if this feeling passes?
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« Reply #31 on: April 29, 2010, 04:17:25 AM »

what are you going to do if you hit a log in the water with the boat and it sinks leaving you out in the middle of a big lake with out a life jacket?

just cause you had a boo boo dont mean you should quit riding...

if you have a car wreck you gonna quit driving a car?

just some things to think about....
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« Reply #32 on: April 29, 2010, 05:48:46 AM »

  OK, my 2 cents>>>>>you will get burn out on fishing and camping, I did >>keep the bike>>find some rideing partners>> there are some in your area>>you will regret selling if you do>>> ask GOD to give you guidence as to what you should do>>I think every thing will workout for you......>>>>>>>>>> GOD BLESS>>>and ride safe>>>>>> Bogator fm Alabama>>>
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« Reply #33 on: April 29, 2010, 06:36:27 AM »

Arlo I don't think I can add much that hasn't already been said except for sharing with you how I dealt with a "close call" on a motorcycle years ago.  Ultimately the decision to keep the bike or sell the bike has to be something to weigh based on several factors....if money is not an immediate compelling factor then as many others here have mentioned....I would probably hang on to it for a while until I have no doubts as to how I feel about keeping the Valkyrie.

The decision to give up riding is a very personal decision that I don't many people can offer advise on, I had the same concerns you described....and certainly the experience Black Dog described after a "near miss" bush with death about 35 years ago.  I gave up riding for quite a few years after that, but ultimately came back after seeing the very bike we are talking about.

A couple of things happened in my life that convinced me that I should ride again. 

#1  - The first occurred shortly after I was out of college and working as a software engineer for a coal company in Kentucky.  One of the other engineers was driving me to the airport to hop a ride on the company plane.  I had been raining for days...the creeks and rivers were flooded and the roads were slick.  To make a long story short...while crossing a low-water bridge, our Ford Bronco ended up inverted in flood waters.  Luckily this occurred close to shore and both of us were young and strong swimmers....otherwise I would not be telling this story.

#2  - I read an article about 20 years ago about an Egyptian dog that had been hit by a meteorite back in 1911.  Being the neurotic person I am, I became obsessed with this and starting doing research on known cases of humans being hit by meteorites.  Anyway to make another long story short...astronomers put the odds of being struck by a meteorite in the US at about once every 9300 years.

What's my point in boring you with these 2 short stories?  In both cases, it become quite apparent we can get killed without a moments notice by something we have absolutely no control over.  I'm not advocating pulling a Benjamin Franklin and walking outside and flying a kite in an lightening storm. However it is now MY PERSONAL DECISION that even though things I enjoy might have risk associated with them, that should not be the sole factor in deciding whether or not I should participate in them.  I weigh the risk/benefit of the things I enjoy in life and hopefully make an educated decision....because there is always a chance that I could be sitting innocently in my living room watching television and be struck by a meteorite!!
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Valkflyer
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« Reply #34 on: April 29, 2010, 07:20:59 AM »

Scooby,
Relatively new member but a long time rider, you’ve got a good group of friends here.

These are your words though...


“this bike is so very special to me”

“thinking that I will ride again soon”

“but I have such a strong bond with this machine that it is really tearing at my heart”


You my friend are not ready to part with your bike or riding.  When you eliminate these thoughts then perhaps it’s time.
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Mountainman
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1997 Standard and 1996 Wing

Ottsville, Pa


« Reply #35 on: April 29, 2010, 09:21:51 AM »

There is a lot of good advice in this board, and I can not add much more than tell what happened to me, for I was in a simular situation last October.

I was going down to Tennessee to ride the "Dragon ", and see some family with a friend when I broke all the rules of riding and a deer caused me to total my Goldwing. As I was healing up from the problems my stupidy caused me, I would hear bikes going past my house for all the twisties down the road from me. It was agony for I was thinking " there they go having fun, and I'm living at the gateway of this area's best riding and I have no bike ! " Thats when I bought the Valkyrie, ( best move I ever made )

The first few times I got on the Valk were shakey I must say, and if I gave up riding no one would say a thing for I'm 71, and have a handi-cap tag on the bike. But after some miles I'm glad to be in the wind and loving the ride my ' fat-girl', gives me. I can not do a lot of the things I use to do, but............ I can still ride and that beats me sitting in the rocking chair, waiting for that 'dirt nap'.


Just my perspective,  ... hope it helps.
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