I got tired of the same battle so picked up a small flat blade screwdriver, heated it a bit and bent a bit of a curve in the end. Took 2-3 tries to get it bent to the right angle, but I can now just stick the end in there, pry up a little and the gaskets pop right out. I filed the end down even sharper than it was, found it works better for me than a pick.
My big problem now....I can't find the fool thing, so guess I'll have to make another if ever needed.
