I grew up on a farm and have 1 brother 2 years older than me and there were no other kids around so me and my brother were into everything. Mom had the switch (tree limb) she kept on top of the fridge and I think I got wacked at least once a day with it but when Mom said my whole name I knew I was really in trouble and that meant I got the belt when my Dad got home. Most of my whippings came from talking my brother into doing something that shouldn't be done and he wouldn't rat me out but my Mom always knew I was behind it. You would think with all the whippings I got I would be against it but I'm a firm believer in it. I can't stand to hear a parent tell their child "You do that one more time" and never follow thru, the kid knows they are getting away with it and in the long run it's hurting them. Noah is 15 and has only been spanked 5 times , he knew when me or his Dad said "one more time" we meant it so his last spanking was in kindergarten.
Good on you darlin.......
The kids were all over here today except for the one in Alaska and they were talking about mom some.
One of them said if dad hadn't of whomped his arse as he called it, he was headed in the wrong direction on drugs....... He admitted to smokin 1 joint, choking on it and never ever putting another one in his mouth....
We lived in a small town when I was a CHP, and 99.9% of the time, any trouble the kids got into beat them home. LOL. So they tried to behave.
I think only 1 of my kids doesn't follow through on the one more time and her oldest boy now lives in another town with his grandparents, dad's family. She couldn't control him and she knew if I took him he'd get his butt blistered..... I hate to say it but if someone doesn't snap his attitude shortly, he will do a jail term of some sort. OH, ya, her husband left her because of this. He spanked Johathan one night and she had him thrown in jail. I bailed him out and when he appeared before the judge he walked out to never return..... She was a little 'B' growing up, and always in trouble. She is the only 1 of the 5 who felt the spanking didn't do her any good...... DUH.............
Enjoy the rest of your day......... Give Cowbell a great big old hug and tell him you love him......