Well, we're only 1314.15 miles apart....... come on over. I'm a former instructor. I taught a wife from scratch, so I have the patience of Job (and a nervous condition).

Try this, start a slow wide circle (left is always easier), and each time you go around get just a little tighter. Try to keep an even slow speed, but not a crawl. Cover the brakes, but don't touch them unless you must. Learn to trust that a lean will not fall over, unless you stop moving forward. Round and round, tighter and tighter.
BTW, if you own a bicycle, you can try the same thing to build confidence in a lean (thou I hate those skinny racing wheels/tires; mountain bike wheels/tires are better), except you have to keep pedaling. Wear gear for this too.
An MSF course should probably be in your future. No insult intended... practice on a Honda Rebel is way less intimidating than on our land yachts. (so long as you're not 6'6")
Jess can I disagree with one point?
Covering the brakes.
If you have your right hand near the front brake automatic reflex will cut in and you will grab it.
As you know if the wheel is turned to the left you will dump the bike.
I think it's best to keep fingers away from the front brake whilst doing slow speed manouvers and to only cover the rear brake.