I wired mine up using a diagram from Rivco as a guide.
I wanted mine to come on only with high-beam. When highbeam is on,
the blue wire (if I remember correctly) that goes into the headlight plug
in the headlight bucket is hot.
I ran a wire in a loom from near the battery up to the headlight bucket,
and hooked a spade shaped connector on to it... the spade securely jambed
into the highbeam plug at the blue wire without modifying or otherwise fouling
the OEM wiring.
With the one wire, I was done in the headlight bucket. I used the one
wire as the relay trigger. I grounded the whole thing with a studly wire
bolted right onto the motor. I forget which bolt, there's a bunch of them
sprinkled all over around the transmission and clutch...

-Mike