If it was the Starter Relay, the whole bike would be dead. No lights, no nothing.
Possible ground problem?
Black Dog
Hey young feller up there in Wiskeyconsin. "would be dead", NOT always...
Some you can turn the engine over but no fire to the plugs with the relay out.
My 1st one was dead in the water, cause everything had melted in the connector, my last one, pictured, would roll the engine over, just no fire.......

Here is the replacement to use if it is out.

You will have to move the big red wire to a different slot. Move it to where it matches the old unit. This kit is for an older Gold Wing... Valkyrie, they want to sell you the whole loom.