There is a fix first posted by 'Kruzin', way back when... It uses a relay from a late 80's vintage Ford F150, cleans up the whole gob of wires, and IMO will last for a much longer time than the Honda setup

After I found my second 'toasted' Starter Relay, I used this fix, and wrote about it...
Here is the post, and the link to Kruzin's fix -
snipFor the second time, in her 16 years of providing miles of smiles, my lady let me down the other day
Got up Monday morning, looked at the weather and saw a perfect chance to 'ride' to work. Pushed the beast out of her cave, strapped on the helmet, snugged up the gloves, slid on my sun glasses, turned the key, pushed the starter, and ... Nothing No indicator lights, no headlights, no nothing...
I've experienced this once before, while in the driveway of a Harley riding friend of mine... Bad timing, and kinda is the reason I no longer give him crap about his bike (in good fun ).
Last time, it was the starter relay 'meltdown' that got me (I had made a point of glooping up the connection portion of the relay with Di-Electric grease, every spring, since the last repair...) Same symptoms, same everything. Last time I 'fixed' the problem using the OEM parts, as outlined in many posts found if you search 'Starter Relay' on these boards.
To refresh my memory, I searched again, and found many helpful hints (RJ's is probably the best known, using the 'kit'). While reading, I came across the write up by Kruzin (Dave) that uses a much beefier, heavy duty starter relay made for an 80's vintage Ford F150
See it here...
http://www.valkyrieforum.com/bbs/index.php/topic,45371.0.htmlWent to my local NAPA after work on Tuesday, picked up the relay, a heavy duty inline fuse holder, some beefier connectors and shrink tubing... Out the door for less than $40 (and no waiting for parts to be delivered)
Tore in to the Fat Gurl at about 5:30 last night, and was on my way to grab a burger and a shake, with my brother, at 8:00.
The new install is clean, sturdy, and IMO, will last much longer than if I went with the OEM parts.
Big cooldude to Dave for taking the time to take pictures and document the process for maybe fixing this issue for good! I 'PM'd" him Monday, asking if I could contact him if I encountered any issues, and he gave up his cell number, no questions asked.
Just another reason to hate this club, and to ask where I can fill out a form to get my dues back
end snipBlack Dog