Its one unit. 73 bucks. Yikes. Maybe a thin coat of 100 silicone on both sides. Course seems to me you want to get it right.
When I reinstalled OEM needles to replace the Cobras that were in my Valk, I carelessly tore a small hole in one of the diaphragms on reassembly. I tried (to no avail) patching it with rubber gasket sealer - but ended up just biting the bullet for a new one. YMMV, but getting it "good enough" may not suffice in either the short- or long-term. I don't think they wear out, but are they somewhat fragile and easy to damage. Good luck! Terry