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« Reply #81 on: August 18, 2018, 08:59:48 AM » |
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To My VRCC Family,
Just a short update. After talking with my Oncologist I have decided that I have one more fight in me. I will start a two month trail of Chemotherapy. The doctor is giving me full control to determine when to stop if I can't handle the side effects.
As the doctor said " We are going into uncharted territory." Chemotherapy is not normal given to someone with an infection. It becomes a two edged sword. It could work or with the antibiotics it could counteract the chemotherapy.
I'm not trying being brave. I have few choices here. No chemotherapy and let either the infection go sepsis, or let the cancer eat away at my body. Neither is pleasant. So what do I have to lose at this point.
So again I thank all for your prayers and well wishes. I have set some short and long term goals. The first one is going trout fishing with a very good friend the last week of August in Missouri. A second goal is to fish with my brother Roger in September on the White River in Arkansas. Then in October I will try and attend "Texas Ural Rider Division & Sidecar Enthusiast Fall Gathering" at Possum Kingdom, TX. Then toward the end of October I am thinking about heading to the Motorcycle playground in TN.
One can't stop living. Ambitious yes, doable yes, it is the focus needed to get through this walk into Hell again. But this is the last time. If the chemotherapy doesn't work then it will be up to the good Lord to decide enough is enough.
Charlie Morse
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Patrick
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« Reply #82 on: August 18, 2018, 10:40:44 AM » |
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I'm glad to hear you have such a good attitude about this. I think that goes a long way. We know there are so many different chemo's, but, they all seem to have their own side effects.
I still hope the best for you.
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« Reply #83 on: September 17, 2018, 12:30:55 AM » |
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To My VRCC Family and Friends,
This is my update of my Journey through cancer. I had a fifth spell where I was sent back to the hospital. Although I have a Pallative Care Group we consulted each other and decided it was for me to go to the hospital. I became extremely dehydrated just couldn't recover.
I have now been rolled over to Hospice Care. It is not what you think it might be. No, they can't do testing and care to sustain life. Your body has already told you that. The whole purpose is your quality of life. For me it is exactly what I need. Dignity.
I am home with my daughter. They supplied me with a comfortable hospital bed, computer table, walker, and what else I need if necessary. I get a full team of doctors, Nurse Practioner, nurses, and healthcare technicians.
They have me on pain medication. Morphine every four hours, with an extra shot (oral) as needed in-between. All the antibiotics and pills for comfort. The staff is great. They come to the house even if needed. They become my 911 in an emergency.
If I want to travel then they arrange for Hospice care with other groups so I am never alone. I've already gotten showered (you can imangine what it is like to feel dirty). Changed my drain dressings, and made sure my area is clean (although not in my daughter's house). So my journey is not physically difficult, but more phycological, emotional, and berevement for my family.
I have councelors coming in (provide by Hospice Care) to work with my children and grandchildren. For the family members it is tough watching a love on die before you. I find that I have to be emotional strong for them. Let me state here as loud as I can, I LOVE MY FAMILY AND THERE IS NO BETTER IN THE WORLD!!!!!!!!
But this is half the story. I want to say more. I hope this doesn't offend any one here. I know that we get pounded every year with request for donations. Dog, cats, kids, floods, and so on and so forth. I asked the powers to be if I was violating any rules by doing this and after two days of not receiving an answer I decide to make this request.
On September 30, 2018 there is a national ride called "The Distinguished Gentleman's Ride.' It's whole point is to focus on Men's health issues. I have formed a team of riders to participate this year. We are called "Texas Urals for Cancer." We will be supporting through you efforts Prostate Cancer, Colorectal Cancer, and PTSD. Many of us are vets and we know what the ravenges of this stress is.
How easy is it to donate. Simple, go to the 2018 DGR main page. In the top right corner is a donate button. Key the button. On the left there will be a search box. Type in Texas Urals for Cancer and it will bring up the view page. click on that and it will tell you how we are doing. Then follow the instructions. I or my team don't handle the money and it goes straight to the organization.
Keep in mind that these three causes are some of the biggest killers in the men's community. The research could help you or a family member. As for the ride we have come up we have the proper outfits, classic MC. I have a Black coat and trousers, white tux shirt, a orange pasley vest and bow tie, As well as a leather top hat wit orange flames. Why orange? it is the color of hope as well as the color of my Ural Sidecar rig "The Hoopty." I will not be piloting my Ural. My riding days are done. But I have a very competent friend who is more than honored to let me be his Monkey for a day.
I will be handing out cancer ribbons and a small informational pamphlet at the stops. Green for Prostate Cancer, Blue for Colorectal Cancer, and Teal and Purple for PTSD. Please folks join and participate. I have never imposed before on this group for money. The cause is just.
Please pray for my family for strength as we complete my journey. To us this is a time to celebrate life not morn it. Again, thanks for all your prayers and well wishes.
Charlie Morse
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« Reply #84 on: September 17, 2018, 01:24:50 AM » |
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All the best Charlie.
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f6john
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« Reply #85 on: September 17, 2018, 04:18:07 AM » |
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A very noble cause, I will go to the site before the sun goes down. Sounds like you are in good hands.
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Daniel Meyer
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Author. Adventurer. Electrician.
The State of confusion.
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« Reply #86 on: September 17, 2018, 07:09:18 AM » |
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Best wishes and you have our prayers. On September 30, 2018 there is a national ride called "The Distinguished Gentleman's Ride.' It's whole point is to focus on Men's health issues. I have formed a team of riders to participate this year. We are called "Texas Urals for Cancer." We will be supporting through you efforts Prostate Cancer, Colorectal Cancer, and PTSD. Many of us are vets and we know what the ravenges of this stress is.
How easy is it to donate. Simple, go to the 2018 DGR main page. In the top right corner is a donate button. Key the button. On the left there will be a search box. Type in Texas Urals for Cancer and it will bring up the view page. click on that and it will tell you how we are doing. Then follow the instructions. I or my team don't handle the money and it goes straight to the organization.
Here's the direct link folks: https://www.gentlemansride.com/fundraiser/texasuralsforcancer |
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« Reply #87 on: September 17, 2018, 07:23:17 AM » |
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Hi Charlie.
Thank you for allowing us to be with you through this, even if it's not in person. When I was young, I never really thought about anyone but my own family and close friends. Now that I'm a bit older, I understand that everyone is someone's family/close friend. You and your family have my prayers.
Ken Graves
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« Reply #88 on: September 17, 2018, 09:03:52 AM » |
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Charlie,
You are the picTure in the dictionary for the word "dignity". I lost my father at about the age I am now (just about 58) due to lung cancer, and he also showed the same dignity. Although I was still active duty Navy and stationed in DC at the time, I got to spend alot of leave time with him for that last year.
God bless you and your family.
Scott
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Excessive comfort breeds weakness. PttP
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« Reply #89 on: September 17, 2018, 10:03:19 AM » |
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Charlie, you're a good man and an inspiration. May you feel the comfort of the Savior's arms around yopu as you pass through this difficult time.
Thank you for choosing to be who you are.
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Any day that you ride is a good day!
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« Reply #90 on: September 17, 2018, 10:35:00 AM » |
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I can't even begin to imagine how "Tough" someone has to be to bare the burden that you are carrying.
You are an inspiration and a shining example to us all, Should any of us ever have to fight the battle that you are waging.
I hope that you health allows you to complete some of those things that you have on your check list before your time on earth is done.
Leaving family behind must be the hardest part of what you're going through.
Be sure that everyone in your family knows how much they mean to you and remind them that in Jesus death isn't goodbye, it's just so long for now.
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« Reply #91 on: September 17, 2018, 12:37:53 PM » |
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I've enjoyed your posts for a long time.
I'll pray daily for you, and your families peace and strength.
I got gnats.
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Aot of guys with burn marks,gnarly scars and funny twitches ask why I spend so much on safety gear
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« Reply #92 on: September 17, 2018, 01:50:21 PM » |
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I hope I have half the strength and composure when my time comes.
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Skinhead
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« Reply #93 on: September 17, 2018, 02:07:55 PM » |
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Well done Charlie, and here's to a successful mission. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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« Reply #94 on: September 17, 2018, 02:24:45 PM » |
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Charlie,
Saying more prayers for you and your family! Your a brave dude !!!
Rich K ( Valk Ski )
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« Reply #95 on: September 17, 2018, 04:16:11 PM » |
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You are an inspiration to all of us Charlie.
Prayers for you and your family. May God grant you an easy passage from this world to the next.
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« Reply #96 on: September 18, 2018, 11:30:33 AM » |
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Continued prayers for comfort from Indiana coming your way.
I am impressed beyond words at your strength and dignity.
God Bless you Brother!
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f6john
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« Reply #97 on: September 18, 2018, 01:00:45 PM » |
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I hope today was a good day for you and tomorrow is filled with love and warm memories.
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« Reply #98 on: October 01, 2018, 01:51:26 PM » |
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I'm sad to report that, per Facebook, Charlie passed away this morning.
His daughter's post:
(The post was made public, so I'm hoping it's okay to post it here)
"My dad was able to take his final breath in peace and with a gentle dignity this morning. His final wish was to do the Distinguished Gentleman's Motorcycle Ride in Houston on Sunday. He was raising money for colon, testicular, and prostate cancer awareness and research. PTSD for Veterans was another cause he was passionate about. He raised $1145 for these important men's diseases. With the help of Jeffrey as the family friend and caregiver, he was able to do the ride in the side car and had the most amazing experience. Thank you to his best friend Bruce for making the trip, and all the riders for including him and making him feel loved. He will be able to ride his motorcycle everyday in Heaven. I will never be able to fully express my love and gratitude! #coloncancersucks #lookingdapper #lovetheorange #sidecarriding"
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« Reply #99 on: October 01, 2018, 02:01:19 PM » |
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No more hurt, no more pain.
Only joy !!!
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« Reply #100 on: October 01, 2018, 02:24:20 PM » |
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« Reply #101 on: October 01, 2018, 02:48:14 PM » |
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Rest in Peace Charlie.  |
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