The way I edge
to make it last, is to take a gas trimmer on edge and make 3-4" wide trenches (cut the sod); and over the years, more dirt gets thrown and the trenches get deeper (eye protection a must).
This not only lasts much longer between edging, but helps a lot with water dispersal, since my house sits higher than the street (and also a corner lot with a lot of sidewalk to maintain).
I don't live in a high end neighborhood, but many here do their best to keep things decent, and I had a bus stop on my corner for many years, so I always went the extra mile to keep it clean and safe for multiple age groups of kids. (snow included)
PS: Both your old and new homes look nice. I especially like the new one's
fortress-F6John look.
I've also had landscape grow huge around my house, and the trick is to get between it and the house with a big hedger and hack it straight down so you can walk all the way around the house inside the landscape. Bushes, shrubs and trees still look round on the outside, even if cut off flat on the inside. Termites may not affect brick like wood, but landscape laying on a house is a good way to invite them (and other bugs) in.
Also, that dark mulch looks great, but mine never stayed dark, and always got rotty and mildewy over time (in muggy VA), and I got tired of paying to put it down, only to rake it up and throw it away to put more down. I ended up spending for natural river-stone, and big flag-stone in places, and with weed-block underneath, that is a solution that lasts over time. Just don't use pea gravel, as it ends up everywhere and is slick even when dry. Three quarter to one inch river stone stays put. The cheaper white crushed marble looks too industrial.
Another trick: Never use a (gas) power washer to clean your concrete, it burns off the surface float and exposes the underlying aggregate which leads to quicker aging and spalling. Instead, wait for a day with mild on-off sprinkling rain, and use a two-gal pump sprayer full of bleach and just walk around putting a fine mist on all concrete surfaces. The light rain keeps it wet and working/cleaning all day, and it doesn't hurt the grass or scape at all. Presto, clean white concrete, and no scrubbing.