John Schmidt
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a/k/a Stuffy. '99 I/S Valk Roadsmith Trike
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Absent the body, present with the Lord. My sweet Rita breathed her last at 9:36pm tonight. No more pain, no more violent tremors from Parkinsons, strong and able to walk upright for the first time in years.
She was the love of my life and this will be a huge hole in my life, I can't imagine my life without her in it. Now my pain begins.....but I shall survive. I didn't get this far on my own power while caring for her, and I won't get through the aftermath on my own power as well. Thanks many times over for the support from everyone, it means a lot.
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« Reply #1 on: May 20, 2019, 06:29:43 PM » |
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We are so sorry to hear of her passing, but as you say she is in a better place with the lord. Just remember the good times before disease made life so hard for her. You have been a saint taking care of her the way you have, no one could have done more for her. If you need any thing please call any time.
God Bless
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Valker
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« Reply #2 on: May 20, 2019, 06:31:44 PM » |
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Prayers, love, and big Bro hugs to you. I recommend that you REST for a bit. Get caught up on you to think straight and heal.
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« Reply #3 on: May 20, 2019, 06:44:08 PM » |
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John. So sorry to hear of your loss, prayers for you and please know that we are here for you if you need anything.
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« Reply #4 on: May 20, 2019, 06:55:41 PM » |
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John, so very very sorry. You are one heck of a man stepping up to the plate like you have done.
Our prayers are now for you. Hoping the good memories and smiles quickly overtake the grief you now feel.
As others have said....if there is anything we can do for you please let us know.
I am sure there are many of us that would like to pay our respects to Rita and be there for you as well so please let us know when you are able to.
Now it is time to start taking care of yourself. She would want that.
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« Reply #5 on: May 20, 2019, 07:10:06 PM » |
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Prayers from Wis, sorry to hear of your loss.
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DGS65
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« Reply #6 on: May 20, 2019, 07:11:25 PM » |
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I'm very sorry for your loss!
I'm sure she is in a better place and at peace!
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« Reply #7 on: May 21, 2019, 02:34:05 AM » |
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Sorry for your loss John.
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« Reply #8 on: May 21, 2019, 02:45:21 AM » |
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Praying for you to stay strong now... you're like a roll model for this extended family...
Sorry for your loss...
-Mike
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« Reply #9 on: May 21, 2019, 02:58:09 AM » |
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John, I wish you all the Lord's comfort in this time of sadness . Rita is now without pain and in the Lord's home. You have been her good and faithful caretaker . You will have grief as well as relief . As the love of your life, Rita will always be with you .
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« Reply #10 on: May 21, 2019, 05:13:57 AM » |
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So sorry for the loss of your beloved wife Rita. She is at peace and pain free now. Take care of yourself John. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
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« Reply #11 on: May 21, 2019, 05:36:26 AM » |
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Yes, no more pain! However sad to receive this news for you and your family. We surely hope to see you out when you are ready. Group therapy Valkyrie style.
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« Reply #12 on: May 21, 2019, 06:27:12 AM » |
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May our Good Lord hold and comfort both of you in this journey.
I hope Rita and the Girls are sitting around laughing about all of the good times you had together.
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« Reply #13 on: May 21, 2019, 10:14:38 AM » |
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So sorry to here the sad news, but for all who loved her It will bring relief that her pain is gone.
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« Reply #15 on: May 21, 2019, 01:35:00 PM » |
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So sorry to hear that Rita has passed John. She is no longer feeling pain and is with her Lord. She is much happier.
We will be praying for comfort for you and the rest of your family.
If you need anything just ask.
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« Reply #16 on: May 21, 2019, 01:40:25 PM » |
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We are very sorry for your loss John, be assured she will always be with you in spirit.
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« Reply #17 on: May 21, 2019, 03:35:24 PM » |
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Very very sorry and Saddened to see this post, though we know it was coming, it's never easy. we grieve for you and we hope you find peace and comfort through the good times and memories you'd shared together, you've portrayed courage, selfishness and restlessness of what real men supposed to be when faced with life challenges of this magnitude, you'd left no stone unturned caring for Rita, you my friend have set the bar high for all of us. Condolences to you and the family. God bless
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« Reply #18 on: May 21, 2019, 05:01:28 PM » |
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Condolences to u John and your family, Just remember we are all family here as well, and let us know if we can help in anyway.
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« Reply #19 on: May 21, 2019, 05:14:46 PM » |
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Oh Man! I'm sorry to hear of this. My condolences to you at this rough time. May you find strength and peace .
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« Reply #20 on: May 22, 2019, 05:56:02 AM » |
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sending you hugs, love and light.
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Black Dog
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« Reply #21 on: May 22, 2019, 08:37:30 AM » |
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Prayers from Wisconsin John  Stay strong... Black Dog |
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« Reply #22 on: May 23, 2019, 12:25:56 PM » |
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I haven't been on my computer for a few days and I'm so sorry I'm just now commenting on this thread, John. I agree with all the comments that have been given by everyone. You have taken very good care of her and loved her more than yourself. God will reward you for that one day when you see him.
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John Schmidt
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a/k/a Stuffy. '99 I/S Valk Roadsmith Trike
De Pere, WI (Green Bay)
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« Reply #23 on: May 23, 2019, 05:19:28 PM » |
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All of you....I deeply appreciate your posts, we do have a really good group here in Florida. These first few days have been difficult beyond measure, having no responsibility other than to myself. A few years ago when the downhill slide began I promised Rita I would not put her in a nursing home as long as I was physically able. I'm proud to say I was able to honor that promise to the end. My love for her was boundless, but as I got older I found my strength and endurance wasn't. The last couple years she depended on me for 100% of her care, and I depended on her for the love she gave in return. The pain of her loss is beyond measure and I'm tormented by grief, but given time it will soften some.
Thanks again for your support.
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Farside
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« Reply #24 on: May 23, 2019, 07:42:01 PM » |
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God Bless you John and to your family. Yes Rita is enjoying the eternal life. I'm sure you two will be reunited with the rest of your family when the time comes. Prayers for your strength and comfort at this time.
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