I was amazed at how hard that poor diaphragm got hammered by the vacuum pulses.
Yes, the valk has a fairly severe cam profile and thus, a wicked intake pulse (the reason for that bizarre airbox...honda does scavenging on intake AND exhaust better than just about anybody)...
Anyway, the OEM petcock has a dampener in the coverset to help protect the diaphragm (the reason you get the new cover along with the diaphragm kit). The cheap/alternate petcocks don't...and it will disintegrate in short order.
Can't comment on the one or two diaphragm issue in yours as I've not seen it...I've seen 'em both ways. Also the one I bought (hey, $20, worth a look, eh?) when I took it apart, had a fair amount of casting sand or metal debris inside it...
I don't recommend any of the cheap petcocks. If you simply MUST change away from the OEM, go with a pingel, but do be aware of their shortcomings as well.