OK... now that I see your instructions I'm guessing they're talking about this:

Working with that little washer/collar is indeed a fidgety part of getting
the forks apart because of the spring pressure... I'm trying to remember...
maybe you need to notice how much of the threaded part is sticking out of the
weird nut at the top, then back it off as much as possible without removing
it, and then there's enough slack in the spring-pressure to struggle the
collar off? Anywho... it will go on and off without damaging anything...
-Mike
EDIT: I used just Progressive springs in my forks and like the result. It seems
that the improved valving of the racetech kit along with the new racetech
spring would be a good thing... I hope you get the kit installed and make
a report ...