you know, you can post the animations themselves.
An analogy would be, the flat engine is like paddling a kayak, left side, right side. A boxer is like rowing a row boat with two oars, both on the pull stroke, or both on the push stroke.
Flat engine (When the left piston is at TDC the right piston is at BDC, or visa versa.)
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Boxer engine (Both pistons are TDC or BDC at the same moment.)