I'm back waiting on parts and just wanted to see if I could annoy anyone who might still be following this thread. By writing down what I've learn I should tend to remember it better, like when the teacher tried to get me to learn not to speak unless called on by writing it 200 times.
So Valker's install tool worked great for me, 5 minutes a bearing, straight in. You definitely don't need my centering mock axel. It worked, but since it's longer than the race is deep you need to be carful not to knock the spacer into the inner race of the opposite bearing when you do the second bearing. I may make a centering extension that's shorter than the depth of the front bearing when I have nothing else to do. I was a little unsure of the flat disk that contacts both the inner and outer race, but when you see it work that's not an issue. Also if you need it right away and don't have an HF near by, O'Reilly's has a kit in they're free loaner tool program.
I don't know about the Motion Pro removal tool yet. It doesn't come until Monday. I'm thinking the removal tool would have taken my bad bearing straight out and held it together without leaving the outer race behind. In any event I think the place I really went wrong with my shop tools was removing the bad bearing first. I think if I would have knocked right side good bearing out first, sliding the spacer round and round with the punch, I would have been ok. With the other stuff out of the wheel, I could have put my deep well 21 MM socket w extension against the back of the bad bearing and driven it straight out with a BFH without it coming apart, maybe.
Lastly and I'm sure I read this in a Chinese fortune cookie once. "If you ride a Honda Valkyrie make sure you keep at least one spare thrust washer in your o-ring stash." Just when I thought my luck had changed and I'd be test riding today. I was cleaning my thrust washer and it broke in half
