Hi Scott,
I'll add my sympathies for the passing of your Mom. Though she left much too early, she is now in a better place. It's great what you and your lady are doing for her Granddaughter. She is fortunate that you both have enough love and compassion to give up many things to be parents to a young one again.
I'll echo what John says about Maine. We were both stationed at Loring Air Force Base, although he about 35 years before me

(Just kidding John!!!

)
Where in Maine are you? My wife is from Fort Kent , and we have relatives all over the state from Yarmouth to Bangor, to Fort Kent

. Beautiful state for riding, when the snow is gone, and then the black flies, and then the Mosquitoes (geez, I thought the B52s left when Loring closed - oh, never mind, those are the mosquitoes not B-52s. But not to worry, the mosquitoes don't stay long, because the frost and snow kills them soon enough.

. Obviously I'm just kidding (well, just a little anyways). But the slogan - "Maine, the way Life outta be!" sure is true. I do love the place, and have quite a few customers in Sanford, Biddeford, Kennebunk, Farmington, etc.
Maybe we can meet up some time. We'll be going back up North in early May!
Be safe, and welcome back to the Board, Pete K.