Update. I must have been seeing only red with anger at the time, because I double checked the fuse and found it to be blown. Installed the relay provided (duh) and all works. Just have to mount the new relay route all the new wires, and put her back together again.
Thank you all for your responses, sorry to be the days knuckle head.
At least you didn`t hurt anything. And you can be the knucklehead today, I usually have that designation most other days.