Since you plan to add heated accessories (grips), you may want a high quality, higher amperage relay than your typical 20/30A. I like to use the ones for radiator fans like this one
http://www.amazon.com/Beck-Arnley-203-0168-Engine-Cooling/dp/B002IEN490/ref=sr_1_130?s=automotive&ie=UTF8&qid=1464952742&sr=1-130&keywords=fan+relaySticker shock isn't too bad.
You may also note that a relay like this one uses wider terminals (3/8" vs. 1/4") for the load. So you'd have to upsize the spade terminals and relay socket. Larger gage wire means less voltage drop.

If you were not using a heated accessory, the typical relay would suffice for sure. Unless you add halogen driving lights or other higher draw to the amperage load.
My 93 came with a PO added headlamp harness, one relay for low, one for high, tucked just forward of the RH map case. (Same bike you sold me the trans cover for) It would eat chinese relays every few months, usually the low beam's (I ride in the rain a lot; it's surprising how much water gets IN the inner fairing areas). Finally figured out the relays were getting moisture intrusion and corroding internally. I bought these kind of good relays, which were also
SEALED and solved that problem. I also oriented them prongs facing down (instead of just laying in there) so that the wires don't wick water to the terminals.
Just things to think about, since you are "planning".