I modified my H4 spots circuit to provide backup power in the event the main headlight circuit fails. Previously it depended on the blu/wh OEM line to the Hi-Lo sw to trigger it's relays, so it would go off with the starter button. Now I've added a 3-pos selector sw to select that same blu/wh line, or if it fails, sw to the taillight brown circuit. If that source is selected, it will not shut the lights off with the starter - but I will have lights to get home. The same could be applied to your simpler circuit, if you don't want to implement my more complex one. See the "select sw" part, upper right in this schematic. You would use a 3-pos sw, "on-off-on", with the center pin to the trigger #85 or 86 (the other to grnd) of your relay, and the 2 outer pins, brown wire and blu/wh wire (or blu wire if you want it to come on with hi-beam). Those wires are all in the bucket. Of course run a separate wire, 12 gauge would be perfect, from the battery thru a fuse to the relay power pin #30. Output to the spots would be pin 87 on the relay. Note in this circuit the diode between R1 & R2 which prevents backfeed from the spots circuit into the main. In case the OEM headlight circuit has a short, blew a fuse, and would also cause the spots circuit to blow a fuse thru the same short. (Also prevents backfeed in normal use.)
BTW I've never had a headlight circuit failure in a quarter million miles on my Hondas. I have lost headlight bulbs, and once burned out a bulb socket. But that doesn't mean it couldn't happen.
