Hey Rugguy!
Glad you are (mostly) liking the exhaust

The only "trick" I ever used installing them (but this was way back when I had my '99), was to leave the pipes loosely attached to each other - since they are really individual pipes, I would not bolt them together completely/tightly until I had cinched up the nuts on the headers. Unfortunately, I cannot remember the amount of stud left showing (on that 99 or when I unmounted those from this 97).
We use a swivel-head socket and extension to put the header nuts on; I think that's as close to being able to get a near accurate torque on them.
you could always "paint" them with some silver exhaust gasket/sealant

I hope you enjoy!