You (nor I) have any frigging idea what it is like to grow up with black or brown skin in America.
You are right and it really doesn't matter either, since you were willing to believe a false narrative in sympathy to Harris and defend her with no facts. That is a what identity politics is all about and that is the only point of all this. Hopefully this idea will not be lost on you.
They manipulated you into believing something that was false in order to garner support for Harris and Biden. All out of emotion, all out of a false painted picture.
These false beliefs lead to division and arguments which is being sown by the left for a purpose.
I'll bet 5 year old Cannon Hinnant knew what it felt like to be hated for the color of his skin, as his neighbor was about to pull the trigger and execute him as he rode his bicycle. And Adam Haner surely knew that feeling as BLM protesters in Portland dragged him from his truck and brutally beat him into unconsciousness. Were these isolated incidents? Not really. The Bureau of Justice Statistics found that blacks are over 2 times more likely to commit hate crimes against whites and Hispanics than the reverse.
For decades well meaning white liberals have tried to shed their guilt by preaching how a racist America victimizes blacks. Many blacks find this insulting. They realize America has done more than any nation on the planet to right the wrongs of the past. Sadly some exploit the naive liberal's victimhood label and use it as an excuse to riot.