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scooperhsd
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« on: Yesterday at 05:34:28 AM »
We got the call from the home health / hospice care at 0610 this morning. She spent the last 4-5 years in an assisted living / memory care facility.

Until her dementia took her away, she was a great person to have around.
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« Reply #1 on: Yesterday at 05:42:07 AM »
God bless her. My mothers prayer has always been to be able to maintain her mind until she is no more. I hope your MIL is rejoicing in heaven this morning!
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« Reply #2 on: Yesterday at 06:28:53 AM »
Sorry to hear this, but she had been gone awhile from the description. Hope your ok.
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« Reply #3 on: Yesterday at 08:03:34 AM »
Prayers for you and you family.   angel
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« Reply #4 on: Yesterday at 09:58:47 AM »
very sorry for your loss

We lost Mom in May, She could recognize everyone by name till the last few days
butt yeah  Dementia is a cruel downhill slope to ride or be around a loved one

she was in the memory unit almost 2 yrs when she passed

Very greatful for the wonderful people who care for our loved ones
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« Reply #5 on: Yesterday at 11:18:39 AM »
You and your family have my deepest condolences and sympathy, it’s not easy.

Before I got married all I ever heard were mother in law nightmare stories, but I never experienced any of that. My mother-in-law took me as one of the family and became a part of my life. She was a good person.

As for her passing in the home, we experienced something similar with my father-in-law. We got a call 2 days before he passed and were able to spend time with him. On the third day, early in the morning (7am or so) as we were getting ready to go over and talking…me, my wife and her sister, the call came that he had passed just a little earlier. Although we did spend time there we were hoping to be there with him when the time came but it wasn’t meant to be.

Again, sincere condolences and deep sympathy for you, your wife and the entire family.
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« Reply #6 on: Yesterday at 12:41:55 PM »
      PRAYERS up from the Missouri Ozarks!  angel angel Do yer best to Remember her as She was before that dilitating dementia took over. May She be 3 days in Heaven before the devil knows she's gone.
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« Reply #7 on: Yesterday at 05:21:28 PM »
My sincerest condolences for your loss.  

Firsthand experience losing both sets of parents for my wife and I.   It never gets easier.  

Should there be anything you need, please let us know.

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« Reply #8 on: Yesterday at 06:26:45 PM »
May she rest in peace, with her creator forever. May your family be blessed with comfort.
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« Reply #9 on: Yesterday at 06:40:34 PM »
Sorry gor your loss....praying for you and your family
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« Reply #10 on: Yesterday at 09:46:29 PM »
I'm very sorry to hear this.  My dad is dealing with a very fast moving dementia and I know how hard it is. 
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scooperhsd
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« Reply #11 on: Today at 05:50:39 AM »
Quote from: Alien on Yesterday at 09:46:29 PM
I'm very sorry to hear this.  My dad is dealing with a very fast moving dementia and I know how hard it is. 

You have my sympathys. We kept Mom at home until we just couldn't deal anymore. My wife was undergoing cancer treatments at the sametime Mom was spiraling down - not a good time for me.Wife is now 3.5 years past treatments, and we got Mom into the facility just as the wife was finishing up.

On that note - I'd like to thank all of you for being there for me.
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