This is a tough subject for men because of amount of in put shall I say.
I can only let you in on a story that happened to me years ago.
I got involved with a young lady in 1968 and she became pregnant
And her family whisked her away and forbidden to see her again.
Needless to say I was heart broken inside for years just not knowing
what the he'll went on.
Well in 2014 I started getting calls from a person that wanted to talk to me
about some information she had for me.
This went on for weeks and I finnaiiy called to find out what was up.
Well you guessed it, it was my daughter that I had never met wanting to get in
contact with her Birth father.
It took about a month of paper work before we were to have direct contact.
Turns out she taught computer stuff at Texas University in Austen and in now
in the middle East working for the banks there.
I am telling this story to let people know that ending a child's life can cause pain
and loss for years and never be healed .
I was blessed ,even though it was years later with a person that thought adoption
rather than what's so easy thrown around now.
I have now become to know and Love this girl as my own and was blessed.
I have to admit the thought of carrying a child to birth and giving them up
has to be one of the bravest things I have been exposed to.

thanks for sharing your story.
Many years ago a young, maybe 20 year old girl called me at home. She started asking questions about me and my Dad. I was named after him. To make a long story short, she was searching for her real Dad. The pain in her voice was palpable when discovering my Dad wasn't hers also. I felt helpless for her.
I'm glad your daughter found you.
