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« on: February 17, 2019, 06:28:24 AM »

With impending foul weather bearing down on us, it was time to depart our fowl feast, bid Arthur farewell, mount up and head out… Generally eastward, but a stop first in Jackson, MS, to check out a motel that might serve our purposes on future chicken runs… Ummm, perhaps I should say ‘rides’, since ‘runs’ can have an unsavory connotation when discussing dining events… Anyway…

We naturally chose backroads, and a purposefully circuitous route, since the most direct route would be relatively short, and it appeared we would have at least a little time to spare before the rain and cold found us again…

After Jackson, and a satisfactory evening at that motel, we made our way generally eastward, with a biased angle southward! I was thinking we might avoid the worst of what would lay ahead down in southeastern Georgia, so that was the most recent game plan… subject to change, of course…

A cool but not cold day, overcast and dreary, but you wouldn’t know that by my mood! Nope, I was quite happy to be out doing what we do, traffic was light, I had sufficient clothing on, and all was well with the cosmos… I later found myself in need to a potty break, so right on que, a convenience store/gas station appeared, and… I pulled right in, dismounted and scanned the setting… First thing I noticed was an…

Inviting bench... probably not a nap opportunity, though...


I went inside, but no hot chocolate, and the coffee pot was empty and turned off… The owner cheerfully offered to make some, however, and he proceeded to do just that, while I addressed the primary reason for this stop. Another family had wandered in during this time, and a ‘group chat’ had followed, with yours truly being drawn in… We then worked our way outside, and I just…

Had to give that bench a try!


The family turned out to be most friendly, and talkative! We had a delightful time carrying on about this and that… The dad then took my picture, and I took one of him…
My photography assistant... Rick Seviere.


They departed after a while, and the store owner came out to chat for a spell. I was enjoying that bench and the conversations so much, much time passed, as it often does, but who cares? No schedule or itinerary, so no sweat! Business was slow then, to the point I was the only patron at the moment… and he was interested in my travels… and in ALI.

“Welcome to Road Kill, Mississippi,” he had said to me at one point! I don’t’ know if that’s really the name of that wide spot in the road or not, but it sounded so cool, I didn’t bother to verify… it just sounded too good, and that’s the way I wanted to remember it… He was an interesting guy, it turned out, middle aged by the look of him, but he has been around quite a bit… quite a bit indeed!

Born in Louisiana, his family had moved to this area while he was still a kid. He’d spent much of his adult life working in the ‘oil patch’, mostly offshore, like so many folks down in this neck of the woods. He’d also been overseas, including the far east, Africa, and South America. He’d eventually returned to ‘Road Kill’, though, bought that store, and settled down… Among the many interesting things he said during our chat was that Americans who complain don’t have a clue as to how life can be… and is for most folks throughout the world!

Time to wander on, so with Road Kill in ALI’s mirrors, we meandered on down the two-lane road to… somewhere… No destination in mind, just wherever we could find a decent motel, a hot meal… and perhaps a character or two to discuss meaningful stuff with… See, I don’t ask for much! By the way, ALI was really strutting her stuff and in fine form! Hard to imagine how old she is and how many miles are on her clock, yet she still purrs like a kitten and scoots right on down the road!!!

An uneventful night in Greenville, AL, then it was back at it over into Georgia, and some roads previously ridden, but not recently… then, a swing over into South Carolina. One more night out in Eufaula, AL, even a long cut to add a few more miles to the ‘clock’ then time to hunker down at home… doggone weather just will not allow for my kind of ride… If I was going to have to hunker down for several days, it might as well be in that danged ol’ recliner of mine…

I got home on a Sunday evening… At 5:30am the following morning, my phone rang! Let me back up just a bit… During my most recent journey, I had a call from a surgeon that my cousin/brother was being taken into the operating room for surgery! He’s been suffering from chronic digestive system issues for a couple of decades, but a lasting remedy had so far eluded his medical providers… Well, they discovered that he now had three holes in his colon, so they were going to remove it! I was the first person on the call list who had answered when notification of family was being made.

He had complained to his girl friend the evening before, and he had decided he needed for her to take him to the hospital… again… That’s when the decision to operate had been made. I began to make plans to head up there… I changed those plans when I learned his brother and sister-in-law were on their way there, and I didn’t want to get in the way… Truth be told, I didn’t really want to be cooped up with that duo for any length of time. I later chatted with Nick via phone, and he completely understood!

He was eventually transferred to a rehab facility, and it appeared he was on the slow, long road to recovery. Then, I arrived home, and received that fateful early morning call! The rehab center had gotten to me on their contact list, again as the first to actually answer… Nick was ‘unresponsive’! They’d performed CPR and called 911… He didn’t make it… He’d had a massive heart attack during the night and died in his sleep. Now I did have to go to Morehead City…

I did, things didn’t work out, as I feared they wouldn’t, so I departed a day or two sooner than I’d wanted. Nick’s brother has things under control, so my presence is not needed… and that suits me just fine… I’m back at home preparing for my own big event in a few days!

Yep, my surgery date has been moved up to the 21st of February, so I’ll be sporting a brand-new catheter in my wee-wee with a urine bag strapped to my leg in just a few more days!!! Dang, I’m really not looking forward to the inconvenience and irritations that lie just ahead, but, as I’ve been so vividly reminded very recently, there are much worse things that can happen…

DDT
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« Reply #1 on: February 17, 2019, 06:43:02 AM »

Bruce, I am so very sorry to hear about your cousin. I know how close you two were. Please accept my sincere condolences.
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« Reply #2 on: February 17, 2019, 06:53:56 AM »

 angel angel angel angel angel
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« Reply #3 on: February 17, 2019, 06:55:14 AM »

Rob,

Thanks for the thought. Yep, I'm really gonna miss that guy! We were very close, and especially so the last decade or two... A surprise, as it always is, but not entirely. He's suffered with various ailments the last several years, and he did not appear to be 'in the pink' when I was there a few weeks ago... Much of the time we've spent together in recent years has involved trips to the doctors, hospitals, and... you know... Anyway, life will go on, but it will be a bit less enjoyable without him there...

DDT
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« Reply #4 on: February 17, 2019, 09:39:29 AM »

Very sorry to hear of your loss.  It's good you got to speak to him before he went home.

I'm also sending positive thoughts on your upcoming procedure.  May the Lord watch over you and give wisdom to your doctors so that you're back on the road in short order.

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« Reply #5 on: February 17, 2019, 09:48:56 AM »


Sorry for your loss Bruce, I've read a lot of posts about you going to nohead city...

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« Reply #6 on: February 17, 2019, 10:41:50 AM »

Bruce, sorry for your loss. I know he meant a lot to you. Hold on to the memories. Prayers for your upcoming issues also. You will be back in the saddle before you know it. Hope you can make the Yooper trip this summer.
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« Reply #7 on: February 17, 2019, 11:02:04 AM »

Sorry for your loss Bruce. 

Well, good luck on your surgery. I thought it was soon and sure enough it is now since they moved it up. Prayers on your behalf for a successful outcome my friend.  cooldude
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« Reply #8 on: February 17, 2019, 11:36:53 AM »

Great read once again Bruce until the unfortunate Nick situation. Sorry to hear this. Keep positive thoughts (I know you will) about your upcoming surgery.
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« Reply #9 on: February 17, 2019, 01:02:17 PM »

Bored out of my mind at home watching it rain so bored I've got NASCAR on the tube got on the VRCC and said great a post from Bruce this will be good as I always enjoy reading a post from you . Nice read my friend right to near the end about Nick . I've heard and read of you speaking about him many times. Sorry to hear of Nick's passing. Wishing you only the best Bruce.
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« Reply #10 on: February 17, 2019, 01:55:23 PM »

My deepest condolences to you, Bruce.  Sad for your loss, but comforted knowing Nick's struggles are behind him.  I'm glad you have many fond memories to replay.

And best wishes for a successful outcome Thursday! 
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« Reply #11 on: February 17, 2019, 04:19:01 PM »

Like Joe when I saw your new post after watching the end of the wreck fest in Daytona I thought this would be a good way to end the day.  Sorry about your cousin/bother.  Hope your upcoming appointment goes well.  I have been installing floor tile in three rooms and one bathroom wall for the last month and looking forward to grouting the last floor tomorrow.  Knees being a bit longer in the tooth so to speak than they were when I did the rest of the house about 15 or so years ago.  Not whining you understand, just breathing a sigh of relief soon.
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« Reply #12 on: February 17, 2019, 04:32:23 PM »

Some rhetorical questions

Can you........ see , stand, walk, ride ?

Count thy blessings and be strong

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« Reply #13 on: February 17, 2019, 05:36:40 PM »

Some rhetorical questions

Can you........ see , stand, walk, ride ?

Count thy blessings and be strong

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Wish you still were Dan cooldude
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« Reply #14 on: February 17, 2019, 05:48:39 PM »

Thanks, Everybody,

I gotta say, it sure is nice, and most comforting, to read all of the nice things said in your replies, PMs, etc. This is a significant loss, for sure, but... as I said, it is not totally unexpected. Rather earlier than I'd thought, of course, but he and I had discussed 'end of life' on previous occasions, and we both were well aware of the certainty of it drawing nearer with each passing year. That time comes for us all, and my time is certainly approaching.

We shouldn't be preoccupied with morbid thoughts, worry, and anxiety about this, and we do need to accept that it is coming. We should take responsible and thoughtful steps to prepare for 'our time', and do things to ease the burden for those we'll leave behind. It is difficult enough for survivors coping with loss without having to figure out all of the details that accompany the 'end of life's tour'...

Nick drank deeply from the cup of life... He lived large, loved life, enjoyed his time, and... Perhaps the thing about him I admired most, and there were many things I truly did admire, was his positive outlook and cheerful manor every day! He awoke with a smile, and he kept it there throughout the day. He was a productive member of society, a peaceful citizen, a responsible family man, and a credit to himself and his loved ones in everything he did. I liked him, I respected him, and I loved him like a brother... I'm happy we had all those years together, and that we shared the many, many memories we made together.

I've become convinced that happiness is not a person, place, or thing... rather, it is a choice. Nick chose to be happy, and he was. I've chosen that, too, and I am quite happy with my lot. I'm optimistic about my upcoming event, and I'm really looking forward to returning to the road for much more adventure. Wandering and wondering have become the focus of my 'continuing education', and they have produced the happiest times of my life! I'm not just proud to be here... I'm downright ecstatic about it!!!

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« Reply #15 on: February 17, 2019, 08:01:46 PM »

I'm with the rest of the gang re. your post....up to the last part about Nick. When I read the part where you got a call from the rehab center I just knew what was to follow, so sorry to hear. As for your upcoming "plumbing repairs" here's hoping you have a quick recovery. Keep us posted.
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« Reply #16 on: February 17, 2019, 08:08:46 PM »

Thank you Bighead

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« Reply #17 on: February 17, 2019, 09:07:17 PM »

Bruce, one very admirable trait you possess is your consistent ability to focus upon the silver lining.  You have a heckuva way of rolling along with the ebb and flow of life that we should all strive to emulate!

Really sorry for your loss but with such great memories of Nick ln your mind he's living still.  Carry on!   cooldude
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« Reply #18 on: February 18, 2019, 05:42:15 AM »

Very sorry to read of your losing your brother/cousin.  My condolences.

Wishing good luck on your next adventure on the 21st.
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« Reply #19 on: February 18, 2019, 06:09:54 AM »

Bruce, like everyone said.....hate to hear about Nick.  Hoping all goes well for ya in the next few days.  Post when you can. cooldude
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« Reply #20 on: February 19, 2019, 02:23:38 PM »

On the lighter side after reading the posted sign ....... your probably just happy they let you drop your pants once your on the inside!  2funny
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« Reply #21 on: February 20, 2019, 07:12:53 AM »

Just seeing this, I'm very sorry to hear about Nick.

I'm sure that you will miss him.

The memories of good times spent together certainly help to ease the pain.
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« Reply #22 on: February 20, 2019, 08:41:39 AM »

Life does go by fast. Sorry for your loss...

...and good luck on your surgery tomorrow!!

*reads about catheter, crosses legs* Smiley
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« Reply #23 on: February 20, 2019, 11:01:55 AM »

Bruce, sorry to hear of your loss.  I'm hoping your medical issue goes well and you are soon on the road again.  Looking forward toi seeing you the next time - Taos or sooner!
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