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My Wife Anna, her sugery outcome.

Started by Grumpy, Fri 14, Jan 2011, 20:32:39

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Grumpy

Thursday my wife had her surgery, the out come was not what we had hoped for. They removed all her female organs, also appendix and lymph nodes. She does have cancer, a form of cancer that causes a large amount of mucilage to form around it. the tumor was about 4 lbs, it was removed with all the mucilage that it made. She is going to require chemo to get rid of what is left, the doctor seems positive that it is curable. Right now they are doing genetic testing to pin down the best form of treatment. I have been living in the room with her, she needs a lot of moral support right now, she had a rough time, surgery was over 4 hours, and now the next evening, she is still in a lot of pain. They made a 15 in incision for the operation, and I can under stand the pain she is having. Looks like about 4 to 5 more days here before I can take her home, Then she will still need a lot of care.


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Please let her know how much you love her and tell her Bev and I are praying our butts off for you guys,,,
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Gear Jammer

SugarPlum and I are pulling for her.   She's got a tough row to hoe ahead, but with the love you obviously have for her, it will be a bit easier on her.  Give her our best.  GJ



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Prayers from Buffalo, NY. Be strong in the Lord, He will give you the strength you both will need, as well as the grace and mercy you each need.
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Jess from VA

Bill, thanks for letting us know.  Man that is tough.  I know a woman who gets a total radical hysterectomy can suffer for a year postoperatively, and that is without a four pound tumor and cancer.  And the chemo is a hard way to go as well.  You will have to be strong for her now and the voice of strength and optimism.  I hope you have some other family or friends that can help you out with this.  Take care of yourself while you're caring for her.

Best of luck Bill.  

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QOTFU

She may have a tough road ahead but it sounds like you are there for the long haul. Prayers to her and your family from Sugar Land.

Charlie McCready

I wish you both the best Grumpy. Hope she's well and pain free soon.

highcountry

Best wishes to your wife for quick recovery.

Bama Red

Prayers up for Anna and you, Grumpy.
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Bandit

Prayers from New Mexico.   Bandit.

GreenLantern57

Still in my prayers. Please accept help when offered, you will not be any good if you get sick or tired.  Can't tell you how many I know that tried to do it all and ended up tired, sick, and unable to help.

Karen

Grumpy, it won't be easy, but you and Anna have tons of prayers and well wishes. They can, and do, do miracles, it's a very good sign if the Doctors think the cancer is  beatable. Recovery from surgery can be very demanding, you can find yourself wondering if it's worth the pain, and the answer is yes. Hoping for the best for the both of you.

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Our prayers and best wishes.....God Bless....
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Thoughts and prayers from iowa for the both of ya.
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solo1

Prayers for both Anna and you Grumpy.

As her primary caregiver it will be rough on you , (I know).

As she progresses toward feeling better, try to take some breaks yourself.  It helps.

Wayne

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I have been more in the habit of sending up wordless prayers so I might be a little awkward in this regard but here goes: Dear Lord Jehovah, we pray that you lay your hand upon Anna and Grumpy and give them the strength of your presence, give Anna your healing, and give them both calm and hope in the midst of their fear. We pray for a full recovery for Anna and that you refresh their spirits, too. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen  :)

Devl

Prayers for both you and Anna from Mid-Michigan.  So sorry to hear that the outcome wasn't what you all expected.  Abdominal surgery does hurt and the hormonal change can be hard to deal with.  Work with her doctors on that, they can help alot.  Chemo sucks, I hope the results from that aren't too bad, sometimes they aren't.  Hoping and praying for the best possible outcome.  Take Care!
Devl

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Prayers for healing coming your way from Indiana.  :angel:
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Hey Grumpy...

I know you'll do whatever it takes, including wearing yourself out, taking care of her when y'all
get home... I hope you have some help sometimes... It sounds impersonal, but Interim (they're in SC and
FL) helped us take care of my Mother while she recuperated after surgery, a couple of the ladies
that came from there were just "people with jobs", but a couple of them were real blessings...
prayers for the both of you...

-Mike

RiderNJ

Prayers and well wishes from NJ.
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Dubsvalk

My heart and prayers go out to your wife, Grumpy.  May she recover fully and have a long and healthy life.
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HayHauler

Prayers from TEXAS for you and Anna.

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Grumpy,

I hope and will pray that the worst is behind you and every thing will improve from here on out.

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slider

with you taking care of her everything will work out,,just remember you guys have a lot of folks praying for you guys,and we certianly will here in arkansas  slider and family
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JerryB

Prayers for you Grumpy from SE Michigan.......JerryB.
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Jabba

Good luck!

If there is anything any of us can do to help... please let us know.

Jabba

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Super Santa

More prayers from Texas for you both.

3fan4life

May the Good Lord provide you both with comfort, strength, courage and healing.
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blotar

Praying for your strength through all of these trying times. I hope Anna is feeling better very soon.
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Praying for the best possible outcome for a full recovery.