Gryphon is correct usb is 5v all automotive relays are 12v. Someone including myself would be happy to help you design a circuit for what you want to do if you explain what you are trying to do. Cant tell from what you have said do far.
I just wanted to plug this in and use one line to drive my heated clothes relay, and still
have another line to charge a phone or a tablet.

Instead I plugged in one of these to drive my relay. Works great, but now I can
only drive the relay.

I didn't think about the difference between 5 volt and 12 volt. I can see online that
there's such a thing as a 5 volt relay, but they don't seem appropriate for switching a
heated clothes circuit.
There's such a thing as this if I really wanted to have two low-powered hookups...

Thanks for the explanation and the offer to help...
-Mike