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« on: August 23, 2016, 08:18:19 AM » |
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You know, now days, if you are a White, American, Straight, Male, you are on everybody’s chit list. Back in my early days, Dad was King, not because he was a male or the Father, he earned that respect by supporting and taking care of his family. When dad needed his quit time, it was respected with no discussion, he had first choice, even if he did take it. It was about Honor, Respect, Courtesy and Loyalty to the bread winner. Now of days, the man is just another back. For a long time I have been noticing on TV commercials how they belittle and degrade males in general, most of the time, they being depicted as backwards, mindless, buffoon like Neanderthals. As the women on the most part, are displayed as being in a fantasy like, graceful, euphoric state, eating, candy, ice-cream or yogurt in an orgasmic trance. Now days if you are a WASM it is wrong to be yourself and have self expression, such as venting your anger or frustrations, because then you are considered a raciest, bigoted, prejudice law breaking male, because you have your own opinions. One thing about males I noticed is we have short term memories!!! I don’t mean, do I remember elementary school and so on, I mean in terms of being confronted with issues between each other and people in general. We have disagreements and get pissed and sometimes get angered, but in the most part it dissipates and swings back into a corporative harmony. Think back as a kid, how many kids that you got in to a fight with, but in the end and in some cases over time, became friends eventually. I believe that is due to our short term memories.
Now women have long term memories and generally don’t forget anything, even though they don’t admit it. How many times did your lady say to the effect, “Remember the time you pulled your hand away” or something to that effect, your response may be something like “What the hell you talking about!!!!” Well we men don’t remember because we just move on, “But they do Remember”. Some may see this as a bad thing, myself, I see it as a primal instinct, and is really a good thing in all truthfulness. I guess if you are a screw off or always pull some crap, probably not a good thing for you. But if you are being a straight arrow, it can be good. Got to keep one thing in mind though about women, most women expect a certain standard, and if you are not providing it, they will pull the plug on you and move on to another nest. Like Aerosmith says this line, something like this in one of their songs, “They are back on the street and not skip a beat”. I believe it to be accurate observation or experience.
Something else, women tend to trust me and tell me their thoughts and their secrets. Some time back, a couple of women said to me on different occasions, and it didn’t make sense to me then, but I always remembered it. What they told me, was about their man was hanging out with their buddies allot, and it concerned the ladies. They said, “They wish their boy friend/husband were messing around with another woman, because they could compete with that, because they cannot compete with their mates buddies”. So the bottom line is, that in some cases the buddies are a threat to the wives and girlfriends. So maybe that is why women are attracted to gay men’s friendship, because they are not a threat to them. I feel the bottom line is that, men and woman’s behavior is a primal instinct for survival, to some it may be a bad thing, but to most it is a good thing and deserves total respect to each other. Now far as women of today I stay clear of them, and thank God I am single!
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