I understand your situation out there in L.A.; lived there from 1974 to 1977 and in three years commuting from Hermosa Beach to Inglewood, I never got on a motorcycle to even test drive one. The odds are just not in your favor when the bike to car ratio is overwhelmingly at your disadvantage. I can only guess that the numbers have increased many fold in these past forty years, plus the texting, road rage, and insane drivers have exponentially grown also.
Last time I rode out there was four years ago to the Huntington Beach area for a wedding and I took the car rather than the motorcycle for just those reasons mentioned above.
I don't know if they may be included in your explanation for quitting the road on two wheels, but if I was to have a family out there I'd think heavily that their dad would be safer not being on a motorcycle in the asphalt jungle of the L.A. freeway system.
So, good luck and best wishes to you and your wife in the future; thank you for your sharing trip experiences with us all.
