Des posts:
"One other thing I noticed was that when the clutch is pulled all the way in I can hear a rattly type noise --- if I let it out just a bit the bike sits still and the noise stops."
Would that be with the transmission in neutral? In that case, perfectly normal!
"As we were stuck in the traffic jam - it was tough to keep holding the clutch moving a few feet at a time. We got off at our next stop and I noticed I couldn't find neutral when we stopped. Now when we stop - shut down - Kendall has to find neutral for me --- I can't do it."
Probably happened from the excess heat build-up from that type of traffic. Should have corrected itself after a cool down and normal riding.
"Really hadn't noticed any issues before -- I did have problems with the bike not starting in gear when I pulled in the clutch -- BigBF had said it was the OEM levers and leather tassles I had installed. So I did what he suggested and bought a set of wide levers. Thought it was simple enough and changed them out myself. I didn't get a new bushing with the levers -- so I used the old one. Hoping from what I understand -- maybe that's the issue?"
Could be simply a bad switch. The absolutely best (hands down) levers for your bike are OEM. Many problems related on this forum caused from aftermarket levers including what you report.
"We rode 350 miles home after the issue began --- BigBF walked Kendall through bleeding the clutch and it seemed to help --- but not really."
Shows you that was not a problem. Hopefully didn't start a new one!.
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