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« on: May 13, 2012, 03:30:50 AM »

He's only 44 years old. I hope he will successes to win it.
BigBF

Hi Y'all -
 
I wish I can say something funny or share some exciting news with you all. Nope, not this time today...
 
I have been sick for a while and was diagnosed with Myelodysplastic Syndrome (MDS) last year. MDS is a disorder of the stem cell in the bone marrow which is considered to be a form of cancer. Since last August, I went to see doctors once a month or two since then to keep track of my blood counts. My red blood cells, white blood cells, and platelets have been dropped every time.
 
I turned yellowish and pale and feeling "tired" sometime because of low red blood counts. Very few of you noticed my skin colors changing since last summer. Some wondered why I always answered "tired" even first thing in morning when they asked me "how are you?" I also got sick or infected easily because of low white blood counts. I got bruises easily because of low platelet counts. That was about all which is why I did not say anything about my blood disease yet. At that time, I was feeling fine, able to do my daily routine without any changes.

I visited my doctors at Johns Hopkins Hospital in Baltimore a few times and was told that we will work on a plan on May 11th. That's yesterday. I figured once I know what my plan is like then I'd make an announcement over the weekend and have time to be prepared to do what I need to do for both work and myself.
 
What I did not know was the plan had already started last Thursday then on Friday my doctors told me that I need to get start with induction chemotherapy right away. I went like "Uh? Now?" and they said "Yes, now!" It was MDS that was evolving to Acute Myelogenous Leukemia (AML) according to my last bone marrow biopsy two weeks ago. My doctors did not want to wait. They think I have a better chance right now before I get a full-blown AML and have other health problems. I will be at the hospital for a few weeks.
 
I know some of you who saw me very recently and thought I was doing fine. Yeah, I agree with you because I still feel great other than being a little tired. I am able to do many things like I always did before I got the MDS. I would not know about my health problem at all if I had not seen my family doctor for my annual checkup.
 
So, off I go to Johns Hopkins Hospital for the toughest fight in my life... Hope I'll get to talk with you soon then. Oh, please do not send me flowers!!! (And not anything that can bring any kind of fungus or infections at hospital, ya know.) Please contact my wife as she's the one who will keep me posted since I'll not be able to check my e-mails much.
 
Regards,
 Thad
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« Reply #1 on: May 13, 2012, 03:42:36 AM »

You will be in Andrea's and my thoughts from Philly BigBF.......
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« Reply #2 on: May 13, 2012, 03:47:45 AM »

Life changes in the blink of a eye. Good luck to your brother.
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« Reply #3 on: May 13, 2012, 04:59:54 AM »

Sorry to see this. Thoughts and prayers to your brother as well as you and your family.
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« Reply #4 on: May 13, 2012, 05:13:49 AM »

That's truly bad news but there is hope.  I will add Thad and your family to my prayer list.  Good Luck, Thad!
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« Reply #5 on: May 13, 2012, 05:17:51 AM »

Please have faith, Bill, there are medical miracles everywhere.
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« Reply #6 on: May 13, 2012, 05:36:24 AM »

Bill, please pass along to Thad my sincere wishes for a speedy and complete recovery along with stength to you and his extended family during this difficult healing process.  Will be thinking of both of you daily with postive thoughts from SE Michigan.  Tell Thad I said "Hi" and to hang in there buddy.
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« Reply #7 on: May 13, 2012, 05:53:28 AM »



Prayers from Middle Tennessee.
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« Reply #8 on: May 13, 2012, 06:17:23 AM »

I'm so sorry to hear Thad has to be in this fight.  I'll hope and pray for a successful outcome.  Please convey to him our best wishes.
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« Reply #9 on: May 13, 2012, 06:18:44 AM »

 Cry

We'll be thinking of him (and you and yours).
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« Reply #10 on: May 13, 2012, 07:17:10 AM »

Bill I am so sorry  to hear this,  we will be sending postive thoughts and prayers for you and your family.  Thad is too young to be going through this crap.   I go for Chemo tomorrow, so have great empathy.  Keep the faith and support him all you can, its a hard fight but the right attitude and support from loved ones does help.  Again my friend I am so sorry.
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« Reply #11 on: May 13, 2012, 07:17:32 AM »

Prayers for Thad and the entire Furguson family.
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« Reply #12 on: May 13, 2012, 07:21:35 AM »

He's young (too young) and looks pretty strong. So he's got that going for him.
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« Reply #13 on: May 13, 2012, 08:12:50 AM »

Wow, that sucks!  For those who don't know Thad, he is a truly nice person... outgoing, friendly, and always willing to lend a hand.

At least it sounds like they caught it early.

Prayers and good wishes for Thad and his family!

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« Reply #14 on: May 13, 2012, 08:21:16 AM »

Charlene and I send our best wishes and prayers to Thad, and to all of your family. I know it is hard on your parents too.

We will be praying for a full recovery.

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« Reply #15 on: May 13, 2012, 09:19:14 AM »

Damn!

Prayers up for Thad and you, BF, as well as all your family and friends.
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« Reply #16 on: May 13, 2012, 09:52:35 AM »

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« Reply #17 on: May 13, 2012, 10:45:40 AM »

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« Reply #18 on: May 13, 2012, 12:43:10 PM »

Prayers up from the Ozarks. May our Lord and Saviour wrap his healing and everlasting arms around thad and the family.
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« Reply #19 on: May 13, 2012, 01:45:53 PM »

Prayers up for Thad and the rest of the family too.  All is worth fighting for.  Looking forward to seeing the family in Arkansas, Bill.
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« Reply #20 on: May 13, 2012, 02:38:19 PM »

Bill, so sorry to hear this. Thad is a great guy. He is in our prayers for a full recovery.
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« Reply #21 on: May 13, 2012, 03:57:22 PM »

  Bill
    Goody and I just saw this and send our prayers.
 We will be pulling for all of you .
   All our love and prayers go to you both.
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« Reply #22 on: May 13, 2012, 04:01:17 PM »

Hope they get ahead of this thing and get him better......good wishes and thoughts from GA....





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« Reply #23 on: May 13, 2012, 04:09:58 PM »

Bill, Thad and your family will be in my prayers!
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« Reply #24 on: May 13, 2012, 05:02:25 PM »

Best of luck to your brother, BigBF....and to your family. Stay positive and strong. Prayers sent!
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« Reply #25 on: May 13, 2012, 05:35:33 PM »

Bill, prayers and thoughts are on the way from Iowa for Thad, and all the Ferguson family.

Tell Thad I said howdy and to quit giving us scares like that, just get well.......

PS:   I added Thad and you to the Prayer List at my Church......
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« Reply #26 on: May 13, 2012, 05:38:10 PM »

Best wishes to your brother. Prayers for him, his wife, and you and yours!
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« Reply #27 on: May 13, 2012, 05:48:19 PM »

Prayers from western ny to you and your family...
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« Reply #28 on: May 13, 2012, 06:16:41 PM »

Thad,

Good luck my brother.  You may not believe this but as bad as things are and as bad as they may get there is every reason to believe that you will come out the other side and put all of this behind you.

I have walked a thousand miles in your shoes....believe me.

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« Reply #29 on: May 13, 2012, 06:38:07 PM »

Prayers from Chicago for a full restoration and recovery for Thad and the entire family. Stay strong and stay in prayer.

All the best,

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« Reply #30 on: May 13, 2012, 06:41:27 PM »

Prayers from Rhode Island.
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« Reply #31 on: May 13, 2012, 06:43:48 PM »

Sorry to hear.

Stay strong, and know you've got the forces of this big disfunctional family pullin' for ya  cooldude

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« Reply #32 on: May 14, 2012, 05:24:01 AM »

Prayer, best wishes and empathy for Thad.
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« Reply #33 on: May 14, 2012, 05:27:02 AM »

Good luck!

Please Tell thad good luck as well.

We'll all be pulling for him.

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« Reply #34 on: May 14, 2012, 07:32:52 AM »

Hope they get ahead of this thing and get him better......good wishes and thoughts from GA....








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« Reply #35 on: May 15, 2012, 12:40:43 AM »

Thank you all...
I wonder if anyone be willing go to Be The Match Registry by National Marrow Donor Program.

I will do that asap and hope my bone marrow will match but I don't know if they will take mine due to my diabetes.
My brother and I have blood type O+ but for bone marrow type??? I am not fully understand about bone marrow because it has never happen to my families and now I need to learn more about it...

I'm not ready for my brother being gone, I know he's strong fighter. Damn cancer really pissed me off...

Let us know if you willing to do it for my brother of course that depend if it will match. I know it will help other people who need bone marrow too. I know I don't like and really hate the needle poke in me but if that will save someone's life will be worth it.

Thank you,
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« Reply #36 on: May 15, 2012, 06:21:26 PM »

Update:
He had bone marrow for latest test yesterday. Tomorrow he will have hickman insert to his heart
then the drugs and chemo will feed him and will make him real sick for about 9 days
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« Reply #37 on: May 15, 2012, 08:27:52 PM »

There has GOT to be a match in a group this big, right?  I don't know anything about stuff like this, but I think we shold ALL get tested for match status with Thad.  I understand the process starts with a simple blood test for the donor.
What do you say? Let's do it!
Someone tell me how to get tested and I'll do it.

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« Reply #38 on: May 15, 2012, 09:36:36 PM »

What I find on search google and I guess this is it? I will check with my sister in law to see if this is the right one?

http://marrow.org/

Thanks,
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« Reply #39 on: May 16, 2012, 07:24:48 AM »

I just looked at the site BigBF put in his message. The test is not nearly as invasive as a blood test.  All that is required is a swab sample from the inside of your cheek.  It is as simple as that! I did that years ago as DNA testing for genealogical research work.  I can assure you it is completely painless!
Unfortunately, it looks like I’m just over the line in the age bracket. Sad
Come on all you young guys and gals! Let’s find that match within our VRCC Family!
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